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My Income :
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$50,000 -- $100,000
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My Ex Spouse's Income :
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$0.00 -- $10,000
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When did you Separate :
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January/2004
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Years you have been married :
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7
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Is there an exchange of Spousal Support :
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Yes
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For how long :
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3yr(s)
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Amount :
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$1,000--$1,500
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Do you have children :
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Yes
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Number of children :
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2
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How often do you see your children/month :
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40%
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Who has Custody of the children :
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shared
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Is there an exchange of child support :
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Yes
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Child Support Amount Is :
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$1,000--$1,500 Paid From me
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How much money have you spent in legal fees due to your divorce :
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$35,000--$40,000
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How much has your ex-spouse spent :
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$90,000--$100,000
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How many times have you been to court because of your divorce :
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14
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Were you ever self-represented :
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Yes
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Percent of time you were self-represented :
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50%
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What is your relationship like with your ex-spouse :
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Amicable
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Number of times you have been married :
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1
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How many years have you been divorced:
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Over 5 years
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Are there any other details about your divorce that you feel is important to share with our members :
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We went to court a number of times for custody but the majority of the time we spent in court was for money.
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If you had any advice for people going through a divorce what would it be :
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If you have a lawyer or if your ex has a lawyer check and double check the math on your settlement. Make sure that you understand the tax implications of payments made for spousal and child support.
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How long did you contemplating the option of divorce:
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1 year
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Separation process :
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Started By me
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Has your ex-spouse ever been unfaithful to you :
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No
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Were you ever unfaithful to your spouse :
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No
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Did you try marriage therapy:
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Yes
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Success rate :
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10%
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No. of people I know who are divorced :
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70
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Do you still believe in the concept of marriage :
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Yes
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Did you have a prenuptial agreement :
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No
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Additional Information:
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Ask lots of questions and try to understand as much as you can about separation and divorce. If you have any questions please feel free to message me.
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